Oh, Saggy, you can be the octopus on the face of all you love. Just don’t be surprised if today they are peeling you off with a solid “Get the heck off me!” Don’t take it personally. The vibes could have you craving space and the rest of it behaving like an annoying smother-er of love. Pay attention to nonverbal cues. The person shrinking from your touch may not be trying to reject you or hurt your feelings. They just may be trying to signal that they need more breathing room. Be a good friend, not a good octopus, and back the heck up. When they want more hands-on (consensual, of course) love, they’ll let you know. In the meantime, try to show love in the way that THEY need, not just the way you want to give it.
