Selfish? Honey, it’s pronounced self-care and everyone should invest in it. Look, Saggy, today will be reflecting assertive vibes that could be excellent for being loyal to your own needs and wants. Rather than bending over backwards to tend to the people you care about, you could try using the word “No” to respond to the demands of others. Ultimately, that itty bitty word could help you avoid running yourself ragged, at work or at home. It’s okay to stand up for yourself. It’s okay to say no. Heck, sing it, Sag!